RELATIONSHIPS

Why do I feel lonely in my relationship?

A relationship doesn’t automatically prevent loneliness. You may be missing emotional closeness even while sharing a home or a routine.

Describe your experience clearly

At a calm time, describe what you miss and one thing you’d like to try together. Leave room to hear the other person’s experience too. A conversation can be a beginning; it doesn’t have to settle everything.

Make room for support beyond your partner

Friends, family, and professional support can also be part of your life. If a conversation with your partner feels unsafe, seek individual support from someone you trust instead of forcing it.

A small thing to try

Try: ‘I’ve been missing our connection. Could we make some time this week to talk without screens? I’d like to hear how you’ve been feeling too.’

Sources & further reading

General support informed by the resources below, not a diagnosis or personalized treatment. How we create these guides

Mind: Understanding lonelinessMind: Tips to manage loneliness
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